This topic is about someone who decided to keep their colostomy instead of going through a reversal surgery. After experiencing a stomach virus, they were reminded of the pain and urgency they used to feel before the surgery. Now, living pain-free with a stoma, they chose to cancel their appointment for a reversal. Here are some insights and advice from others who have faced similar decisions:

1. Many people find that living comfortably with a stoma is better than facing the risks and long recovery time of a reversal surgery.
2. If you have had prior pelvic or abdominal radiation, a history of cancer, or a colon perforation, the risks of reversal surgery can be higher, and recovery can take longer. This often leads people to stick with their ostomy.
3. Age and overall health are important factors. Older individuals, such as those in their 70s, often feel that the potential benefits of another major surgery do not outweigh the risks.
4. Comparing your quality of life before and after the ostomy can help in making a decision. Remembering what life was like before can be a useful guide.
5. Many people experience "surgery fatigue" and prefer to avoid hospitals unless absolutely necessary due to severe pain or emergencies.
6. It's good to keep an open mind for the future, as technology and surgical techniques are always improving. Even if you decline surgery now, things might change later.
7. Emotional support is abundant in the ostomy community. Choosing to live with a stoma is a common decision and is widely understood and supported by others.