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Finding a Dress for a Wedding with a Transverse Ostomy

The topic is about finding the perfect wedding outfit that can comfortably and stylishly conceal a centered transverse ostomy, which is located just above the navel. The person is confident in managing their stoma but is having a hard time finding a dress that is both suitable for a wedding and capable of hiding the pouch. They are plus-size, 5'10" tall, and open to any color, with the event taking place in May, likely in warm weather.

Here are some helpful suggestions and insights:

1. Consider empire waist or Bridgerton-style silhouettes. These dresses are fitted at the bust and flow out immediately below, which can help hide a centrally placed bag. Look for "empire waist midi dress" or "A-line/2-in-1" pieces at stores like Walmart, Nordstrom Rack, Amazon, Kohl’s, Modlily, Anthropologie.com, and JJ’s House.

2. Opt for flowing, patterned, or layered garments to distract the eye. Maxi or sundresses, tiered dresses, chiffon capelet dresses, wrap-around scarves, light toppers, ruanas, kimonos, or a sheer patterned overlay from bridal shops can be great choices. Prints and patterns can camouflage bulges better than solid glossy fabrics, and dark colors like black or navy are also helpful.

3. Use supportive undergarments and items. Light-control, high-waisted underwear and elastic-waist skirts or pants worn high can help keep the pouch flat. The Duluth Trading "No Yank Tank" with a built-in bra can anchor the appliance. Wraparound bands or slip-on Stealth Belts can smooth the area without compressing. Standard ostomy wraps or belts, or an IGGIE Clip to shorten the pouch, can raise the bag above the waistline.

4. Try some style tweaks. Body-con dresses can work if you create intentional gathers by placing a shower-curtain ring inside the dress at the pouch site and securing it with a hair tie to form a flattering ruche. A dressy pantsuit with a long, loose, layered tunic top and elastic-waist trousers can offer both comfort and coverage.

5. Explore shopping and preparation tips. Don’t overlook bridal or mother-of-the-bride departments, as they often carry flowy overlay dresses in plus-size and tall lengths. Fast-fashion sites like Temu and Shein offer inexpensive empire styles if you're on a budget. Lastly, bring an emergency backup kit with spare pouching supplies to the wedding for peace of mind.
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