This topic is about someone who recently had reversal surgery, which initially seemed successful. However, after some time, they needed to return to having a permanent stoma due to severe pain. They are now adjusting to life with a stoma pouch and are seeking ways to manage pain.

Here are some insights and advice shared by others:

1. Many people offered words of encouragement and support for both the initial recovery from surgery and the transition to living with a permanent stoma.

2. It's noted that having personal experience with a stoma can lead to greater understanding and acceptance in relationships, especially with partners who also have a stoma.

3. Reassurance is given that living with a stoma pouch doesn't have to be overwhelming. Life, including romantic relationships, can still be fulfilling and enjoyable.