This topic is about a remarkable journey to parenthood after overcoming cancer, highlighting the use of surrogacy and the joy of expecting twins. Here's a look at the key moments and insights from this inspiring story:
- In April 2010, the individual was diagnosed with cancer.
- By June 2010, they underwent surgery, which resulted in a permanent colostomy.
- In August 2010, they made the brave decision to delay cancer treatment for six weeks to harvest eggs, resulting in eight embryos being cryo-preserved and stored in Las Vegas, NV.
- By September 2011, they chose a gestational carrier, a best friend of 10 years, and completed all necessary legal, insurance, and medical protocols.
- In November 2011, the first phase of a colostomy reversal was performed, and a temporary ileostomy was received.
- By December 2011, the best friend became pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl, using the preserved embryos.
- The couple is now looking forward to a "happy ending," fulfilling the husband's wish for children genetically related to his wife.
Additional insights and experiences include:
- The originator may be absent from the forum around the August due date while caring for the newborns.
- The gestational carrier is experiencing some late-pregnancy discomfort, including swollen feet, hot weather, and recovering from a cold.
- The originator is enjoying life without the ostomy bag, swimming for the first time in years, and successfully reintroducing raw fruits and vegetables without affecting output.
- Four years post-surgery, all scans show No Evidence of Disease (NED).
- The twins are now approaching age two and beginning toilet training, which has deepened the originator’s appreciation for life.
Advice and insights shared by others include:
- Many members offered emotional support, prayers, and encouragement, emphasizing the importance of celebrating positive outcomes.
- One member, after their own reversal, shared that having smaller, more frequent bowel movements is a manageable "new normal," providing reassurance to others facing similar adjustments.
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