This topic is about finding one's place in the ostomy support community. It highlights the journey of someone new to a support group, who finds comfort and valuable information by reading others' experiences. They are still figuring out how to ask questions and worry about repeating topics, but they draw strength and courage from the shared stories.

Here are some helpful insights and advice:

1. You can participate in any way that feels right for you, whether it's reading quietly, asking questions, or sharing your thoughts when you're ready. There's no rush to feel comfortable.

2. Every question is important, even if it has been asked before. The answers can help both new and experienced members.

3. The forum is a safe place where people truly understand what it's like to live with a stoma. You're never alone in facing challenges.

4. It's normal for your level of involvement to change over time. Taking breaks is okay, and the friendships and support will be there when you return.

5. Some additional online resources that might be helpful include:
- www.ostomy.org
- www.ostomyland.org

6. It takes time to feel ready to contribute. It's perfectly fine to observe and learn until you feel comfortable sharing.