This topic is all about love stories and dating successes among people who have an ostomy. The conversation started with someone asking if there are couples who have met and fallen in love because they both have, or understand, an ostomy. They were hoping to hear some heartwarming stories from the community.
Here are some insights and advice shared by the community:
1. Examples of successful matches:
- A British couple shared their full story on MeetAnOstomate.
- Tara met her partner Craig on a public dating site soon after starting an ostomy support group. They quickly became inseparable.
- One member shared several stories:
- A Boston nurse traveled to Texas for Thanksgiving, though the relationship ended amicably.
- A Chicago woman received help with her ostomy supplies and may meet her helper in person.
- An ostomate living two hours away had a pleasant meeting.
- A brief, incompatible match in Houston.
- Another member met a wonderful lady but ended it due to her smoking; he remains open to new connections.
2. How to exchange personal information on the site:
- The administrator explains that emails and phone numbers can be shared privately through:
- Member-to-member messages.
- One-to-one Instant Chat.
- Posting personal contact details in public areas is not allowed.
3. General dating and emotional support tips:
- Patience is key; meaningful connections can take time, so enjoy the journey even if relationships don’t last long-term.
- Keep a positive attitude; a light-hearted story about losing hairs shows the power of a good outlook.
- Shy members are encouraged to attend ostomy conferences or local meet-ups and consider shared living arrangements for companionship and support.
- Physical conditions should not limit love; being open to relationships is encouraged.
- Even unsuccessful dates can offer learning experiences and pleasant memories.
4. Site policy note:
- Attempts to post an email publicly, even for donating unused ostomy products, will be removed. Use the private channels instead.
