This topic is about a bi-curious male who has a colostomy and is looking for ways to keep his ostomy appliance discreet during encounters with other bi-curious men. He currently uses a longer T-shirt and a small colostomy pouch to help with discretion. However, he faces a challenge because he believes stoma caps are not available in the size he needs.

Here are some helpful insights and advice for him:

1. Stoma caps can be a great option for a more discreet look compared to full-size pouches. Many people find that their partners rarely notice them.

2. Companies like Convatec and Coloplast offer stoma caps that can snap onto standard two-piece wafers. These wafers can be cut to fit stoma sizes ranging from ½" to 4", so a 1¼" opening should work with these products.

3. Using a stoma cap instead of a pouch, along with wearing clothing that drapes over the area, can help make the appliance less visible during intimate moments.