Hi Casey,
I had a similar problem; my stoma would retract if I was sitting and leaning forward, and when I was lying down, it would go flat to the skin. The retracting was found by my ET nurses when I went back a month and a half after my emergency surgery for a diverticulitis perforation.
They switched me to the Coloplast Convex appliance. The order numbers are:
Barrier Ring: 12035 box of 10
Flanges: 16886 box of 5, need to order two boxes.
Pouches: 12243 box of 10
I would make an appointment with your ET nurse (stoma nurse) to have a new fitting done. Have them check how it looks when your wife is lying down as well as sitting up and sitting up leaning forward.
My hubby helps me with my appliance changes as I wear trifocals and am too uncoordinated with my actions when I look in the mirror. He basically spots me when I am putting the barrier ring and flange on, as I cannot see below my stoma to make sure I have the ring and flange placed correctly. Now the only time that I have issues with leaking is if PIA (the name my hubby gave my stoma) decides she is going to burp up some food or liquid, and it gets underneath the barrier ring.
Our routine now is:
- that I try to make sure I have nothing to eat or drink at least 5 hours before we change the appliance
- have a nice hot shower; it makes it easier for me to remove the appliance without irritating my skin
- I clean off any remaining barrier ring residue with the Brava Adhesive Remover
- then use warm water to wash (no soap) the skin around my stoma and gently clean my stoma
- after washing the area, I make sure I dry the skin well before applying the new appliance
- put on the new appliance, and then I lay in bed for a little while with my hand putting light pressure over the stoma to make sure that the barrier ring and flange are secure.
Just remember your ET nurses are there for you to talk with for as long as your wife has her stoma.
I wish you and your wife all the best.