Intimacy Challenges with an Ostomy

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Beachboy
Jul 15, 2024 2:54 pm

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't like my wayward stoma. No one else seems to mind. So, I just let it go and not stress about it.

Past Member
Jul 17, 2024 4:53 pm

My big question is, how to keep the bag from flopping around during the ride? Tie it down with a scarf or something?

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warrior
Jul 17, 2024 6:29 pm

Hi, if you have read the previous messages above, you will see what people suggest.

Some good advice.

Tube tops, stealth belts. Crazy glue... just kidding. ๐Ÿ˜

Beachboy
Jul 17, 2024 6:38 pm

Crazy glue... that's... um... crazy.

Past Member
Jul 17, 2024 10:19 pm

Thank you. I thought I had read all the comments, but it turned out there were more after an ad that I didn't scroll far enough past.

 

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warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:41 am

No worries. I have always said this web design is a bit confusing. You learn more as you read and respond. It's a good bunch of people. Welcome.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:43 am

Says the man, with a crazy feline. You know crazy, don't you?

anneboyles12
Jul 18, 2024 1:19 pm

Yes, I use a prettier hernia belt.

Beachboy
Jul 18, 2024 4:00 pm

Too true... too true.

My cat says I'm too lazy to be crazy.

Disagreeing, I'd say her outlook is too hazy.

Into the wall she darts,

To avoid eye-watering stoma farts.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 4:05 pm

Your cat speaks? Therefore, you are the cat whisperer. ๐Ÿ˜†

Hisbiscus
Jul 25, 2024 4:23 am

Put on a maternity band over your bag and have at it! Ostomy Secrets sells some sexy wraps made of lace. Don't worry about it; if it doesn't bother him, then just go with it like it's not even there. Focus on the sex, not the ostomy.

Mine has made noise and even pooped, but I have my wrap on. Just tune it out.

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