Post-Surgery Recovery Struggles and Birthday Reflections

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infinitycastle52777
May 28, 2025 2:53 pm

Thanks for the welcome back. It is good to be back on the computer. I really didn't feel like it for several days, and now I am at least able to do it some. So that is good. I think maybe I am finally on the mend. Although my stoma was very naughty this morning and went under my wafer and pooped really big and made a mess all over the floor, my sock, the sink, and everywhere. I was not best pleased. But at least he's working. Working stomas are a good thing, even if they make a mess.

infinitycastle52777
May 28, 2025 2:54 pm

You are right; being home is the best place to recover. Hospitals are no place to be!

infinitycastle52777
May 28, 2025 2:56 pm

Yeah, I absolutely hate NG tubes. It's traumatic. Getting them in and then when they rip them out, it hurts my throat.

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Yeah wow, this site helped so much, I mean really who do you know with this infliction? No one, felt so alone and disgusted by myself every turn.
But it ended up being so damn strengthening, I got fucking moving, really only another choice.
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I was damaged by a procedure and ended waking with this, I understand all of you.. perhaps you had to have it, I get it.. doesn't matter either way.
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infinitycastle52777
May 28, 2025 2:58 pm

Thanks for the birthday wishes. I had a good day overall. I enjoyed my pizza. So did my stoma, I think, as it spit out lots of poop from it and went under my wafer to do it. Silly little thing.

infinitycastle52777
May 28, 2025 2:59 pm

Thank you. It was a good birthday. I am not too steady on my feet yet for very long, but I am definitely doing better than I was.

 

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Morning glory
May 28, 2025 5:07 pm

Happy Birthday, Lee. I am so glad you're home now. I think the air pockets will clear up. Lee, try to get some healthy foods in. You could try juicing them. You have been through so much. Take care of yourself.

Dwild-WA
May 28, 2025 11:03 pm

I get that! At the same time, when I went in for my blockage, I really wished they had put in an NG tube sooner since I was throwing up poop for days!

infinitycastle52777
May 30, 2025 3:22 pm

I got some baby food veggie and fruit pouches to get some added nutrition. It will get some veggies in me and some fruits in me too. I am still struggling to eat well. Lots of Jell-O still and lots of ramen noodles. But I did have orange chicken yesterday, and it went okay. So I am building on the Jell-O. I am getting more normal foods, starting to get away from the ramen noodles. I am going to try ground turkey tacos today. See how that goes. Hopefully, it won't be too hard on my digestive system.

infinitycastle52777
May 30, 2025 3:25 pm

I threw up for days before I went back to the hospital. If it wasn't for my mom deciding I was just throwing up too much and was probably getting dehydrated, I would have been back in the hospital. She was the one who took me to the ER. And we had to drive to another city to get to one. And she sat with me till after midnight waiting for me to get a room in the hospital. It was right after she left that they were like, "NG tube now." I just knew it was coming, though. I knew as soon as I got to the ER that that was what they were going to do to me.

kerrycookie95
Jun 02, 2025 9:00 am

Happy birthday, babe. I feel for you; we don't have it easy, do we? Us double stoma buddies, keep your great attitude; that's all we can do. Get well soon. Big hugs and love. xx

kerrycookie95
Jun 02, 2025 9:04 am

I am on ramen and broth too; the only thing that doesn't cause severe pain. Big love.

Jayne
Jun 02, 2025 1:27 pm

Hi Lee,

I hope things are settling down for you. It's still early days, I guess, but it would be good to know you have a steady course ahead of you.

Kind thoughts

BW

Jayne

infinitycastle52777
Jun 14, 2025 3:47 pm

I'm eating some regular food now. Chicken, tacos, and lasagna roll-ups. But I was eating ramen for days on end. It got me through the worst of my pain and my post-surgery issues. Ramen is the best. LOL

infinitycastle52777
Jun 14, 2025 3:51 pm

I am slowly getting better. Each day brings a new thing, but I am handling things just fine now. By the end of the day is when my pain is the worst after having done things all day. I am getting exercise. I am eating better now. I am no longer throwing up my medications. All good things for me, I think. I am so thankful to not be vomiting anymore. That is the biggest thing. And my stoma is doing its job finally, so I am happy about that too. He's woken up and is working. Yay!!

infinitycastle52777
Jun 14, 2025 3:52 pm

Thanks for the happy birthday. I finally got my cake. A week late, but it was a good cake. And I had ice cream too and didn't get sick with all that richness. Yay!