Hi Guys , just kind of bumped into this crazy conversation again . A Lady Pen-zpal of mine writes on a site where people contribute Naughty and Very !! Naughty stories . Many are Real and many are fiction and Non-Ostomy related ...But ... It was suggested by this wonderfully horny , sexy lady that there is a subculture out there who do indeed use the Stoma for this Unthinkable activity ...YUCK !! . I told her that if they do then the attraction is not the Surgical Hole in the belly but an attraction ( YUCK once again !!) To the Yucky stuff that flows out of there every minute of every day , for me at least !! . There are no muscles around the Stoma , no Sphincter so any pleasure achieved would not be in the same Ballpark as Vaginal Or Anal sex . Not having ever participared in Anal sex I guess I'm making ass- umptions ( ĹOL 😎) here . The tightness of the Oriface has a lit to do with feelings of pleasure so if the Oriface is a Stoma there would be little resistance / tightness to be experienced . A variable flow of brown stinky shit is what a person would get . The only logic for enjoying this ' Shitstorm' would an attraction to Shitstorms in general whether out the Rectum/ Anus or out the Stoma . I believe the scientific term for such an attraction would be Copraphilia ( not looking that up on Google ...imagine the Ads I would get in my Google , Gmail Inbox ...LOL !!! I concluded that people might indeed give this activity a shot but for purely Fetish value and not as just another cavity to be filled by Mr Johnson and his Helmet LOL ...
To wander into the Tall Grass here ...she writes about S&M with "Japanese Rope " Activity' . She explains this as people who have too much responsibility in everyday life , people who have to be always in control of every situation ...a sort of Micromanager who wants to control their work and home life ...will sometimes need to give up control , totally !! This makes sense actually . The subject is artfully tied with ropes placed in particular patterns and on particular areas of the body . The subject is no longer responsible for what happens and may actually find a sense of relief in being " off the hook" ( while literally being On A Hook !!! ) for whatever happens . Sexual satisfaction is "administered " by the person doing the tying by stimulation sexually sensitive parts of thd body , male and female . She sent me a short Vid example of this Rope Activity in action and both parties were having the time of their lives although there was pain and some discomfort involved . My Clinical Psychologist swimming lady friend back in Ireland mentioned that this comes up for patients , wanting to hand over their Control to someone else and feel freedom from pressure for a short time . The other half of the equation is the person who controls the situation . It's not about Inflicting pain but about being the person in the room who has all the control over another person for a short time .
You would really and sincerely have to have total faith and trust in the other person if doing this ...could be dangerous if the person in control gets a bit too enthusiastic and forgets about limits . Unless you are Houdin Reborn I would not suggest trying this with some person your picked up in a pub ....as Forrest Gump said ..."Life is like a box of chocolates , you never know what you're gonna get .."
There are so many pathways to pleasure , sexual and otherwise . If he can't get it up like he used to before surgery there are many physical pleasures that do not involve the Penis or the Vagina . I've been lucky in that my parts seem to work bettef than ever !! I'm happy to say ....all I need now is someone to share my Parts with !! It's a shame to see them go to waste ....as the Ad used to say .........".a mind ( Penis or Vag ) is a terrible thing to waste ..LOL . I know that Kitty would want me to share my gift and good fortune of functional male anatomy with some woman somewhere ....but that's ok I can live without if I have to , did it before !! If it happens again it would be nice life does what life does , can't control everything , right ??!! Magoo ☘💚