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Does anyone know of any Ostomy undergarments that actually work and look nice?

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Wed Dec 16, 2020 3:13 pm

I have had my iliostomy not to be confused with colostomy which is less messy than an iliostomy for over 5 years now.  I am yet to find a line of underwear, belts or intimacy garment that firstly, feels comfortable, secondly prevents my bag from showing when filling like a watermelon bulge and looks in anyway aesthetically pleasing or doesn't let my fanny hang out...I'm a designer and I've purchased a whopping 3 hernia/belt or underwearish somethings that are just all wrong and I resort to pregnancy bands. So I have a lot of reservations when in the moment of rapture just fizzle out from being so self conscious about the ordeal.  Is my bag going to leak, can they smell anything, ouch this is really uncomfortable 🥵 and oops the 💩 poops! Please send me some feedback so I can get some design ideas to the drafting table for all of us and any concerns if you already own these a link or name to get us back on the saddle again or plainly have sex and not feel so worried 😟...!

I have a feeling I'm not the only one that wished there was a company exclusively devoted to developing intimacy products for Ostomy patients! 

Feel free to get as specific as possible the devil's in the details when it comes to each individual person and that's what makes a great fitting peice!

Wed Dec 16, 2020 4:05 pm

Ostomysecrets.com has a great selection of lace female lingerie. I've shopped there for men's clothing and women have way more of a selection for the bedroom. Good luck! :) 

Wed Dec 16, 2020 4:22 pm

Nightingale Medical Supplies in Canada has some under garments. People also talk about Ostomy Secerts. I ware a maturnity band or a bandeau.

Wed Dec 16, 2020 4:43 pm

I have taken apart a simple fitted silkylong  top and made the neckline fall below my breasts yet be fitted on my waist . I fold my ileostomy bab up and tape it so it's not draping out . Sexy,alluring and very comfortable for me . As far as panties ...one size larger to pull up and my bag can tuck in . High sides and front . I prefer thong though . 
good luck .I'm not a designer ,so you have a better edge than me ...but I can sew . Let me know your ideas . As far as the sounds ...put on music 

Wed Dec 16, 2020 4:59 pm

Hi Scuba! Check out stealthbelt.com

They have a variety of neat coverings. I have been using them for years. Not only good for sports and blow out protection but also for intimacy. Let me know what you think?

Mike



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Wed Dec 16, 2020 10:27 pm

Oh come on girls...........we need to see pics...........to ummmmm better understand the problem.  Yeah, that's it.  

 

;0)

bob

Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:50 pm
w30bob wrote:

Oh come on girls...........we need to see pics...........to ummmmm better understand the problem.  Yeah, that's it.  

 

;0)

bob

🙄🙄🙄

k 😊

Thu Dec 17, 2020 11:23 pm
kstyle wrote:

🙄🙄🙄

k 😊

Hey....ya can't blame me for trying!

;0)

Bob

Sat Dec 19, 2020 5:50 am

Stealth belts are the best. Comfortable and supportive. They have adjustable and flip on style with a really nice lace slip on hood for intimate situations. They are expensive but worth it. 

Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:47 am

Hi :

As a Floridian as well, products from Ostomy Secrets may be the answer you're looking for.   Beaching, boating , intimacy, active lifestyle- it's all there.    Let us know what you think 😎

Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:58 am

hi I have a ilio and failed J pouch - but one way or the other I have had a bag off and on since 89.  I had the idea to have a stretch lace belt that had a holster of sorts for the bag.  I am not a seamstress but I thought it could be done and come in colors as well.  Being a western sort of gal I thought it a cute idea

Judi

Sat Dec 19, 2020 5:46 pm
Uro2011 wrote:

Ostomysecrets.com has a great selection of lace female lingerie. I've shopped there for men's clothing and women have way more of a selection for the bedroom. Good luck! :) 


I agree. As a guy not sure of different challenges a lady may face but Ostomysecrets has great products for men. 

Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:13 pm
w30bob wrote:

Hey....ya can't blame me for trying!

;0)

Bob


I guess not.....

😊

Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:44 pm

Stealth belt may work, I'm a guy and it's probably easier for me than you.  

Sun Dec 20, 2020 11:18 am
Capo Vito wrote:


I agree. As a guy not sure of different challenges a lady may face but Ostomysecrets has great products for men. 


Capo,

  I checked out Ostomy Secrets.......and it looks like everything they have is for a stoma below the beltline, other than a wrap.  Did I miss something?

 

thanks,

bob

Sun Dec 20, 2020 11:45 am
w30bob wrote:


Capo,

  I checked out Ostomy Secrets.......and it looks like everything they have is for a stoma below the beltline, other than a wrap.  Did I miss something?

 

thanks,

bob

I looked as well . I was hoping for a high above the belly button thong or sexy one ...not a granny pantie style . 

Sun Dec 20, 2020 12:00 pm
Ritz wrote:

I looked as well . I was hoping for a high above the belly button thong or sexy one ...not a granny pantie style . 


Yeah, I only enjoy wearing the thong style as well.  I truly enjoy the feeling of having a string up my ass!  Oooh....I'm getting all tingly just thinking about it!!

 

;0)

bob

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