Hello. Next Thursday, I am having my rectal stump surveillance endoscopy, which seems to happen every two years. I always get extremely nervous about this despite not experiencing any symptoms of my previous ulcerative colitis down there ever since getting the ileostomy back in 2014. The last test I had in 2022 confirmed nothing apart from disuse proctitis, but there were no sinister features. Still, me being me, I am always terrified of them finding something down there despite the absence of any active symptoms (just the odd bit of mucus discharge but no bleeding or blood). I was just wondering, as I approach 10 years with the ileostomy, has anyone left the rectal stump in situ without getting their bowel reconnected as my surgeon has said that both procedures (getting it reconnected or getting the stump removed) are quite big operations and that I prefer to be just as I am with regular surveillance. I mean, has anybody just left the rectal stump there for many years and not experienced any bad effects? I don't really fancy having more surgery and just wondered if there are any other ostomates out there who have lived with the rectal stump in place for 20 or 30 years or longer and not had a problem with it?
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