Princess Kate

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dmo101
Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

My theory on all the hub-bub on Kate and the LONG recovery is she had to have a temporary ostomy due to that surgery she had.  She did not want to do any public appearances with an ostomy bag.

Just my theory.

Beachboy
Mar 25, 2024 2:09 pm

Into every life: rich, poor, famous, peon, and royalty... some rain will fall.

 

Justbreathe
Mar 25, 2024 2:42 pm

Along with waste, our ostomy bags carry a great deal of other shit - namely the ostomy stigma. If indeed this is the case, what a grand opportunity for the royals to embrace the possibilities of erasing this stigma! Wondering if Diana would have considered this? jb

Posted by: Nini4

Well,  I  hit the two year mark. I went back and read my posts from when I first found this site. I was very fortunate in that I stumbled upon it only 4 weeks post op. I have said many times that this community really saved me. The first 2 weeks after my surgery I shut down completely. It wasn't until about the 3rd week that my son came in to my room, flicked on the light and told me I was going to have to get back to living because I was scaring him. I had fallen into such a depression.  He  ticked me off,  but it also made me stop and think- what was I going to do? Feel sorry for myself and sulk, or be grateful I was alive. 

I've re-read my journals from that time and it was after my son kicked my butt, so to speak, I took an honest inventory and had to dig deeper than I've ever had to. I mean, I had survived a pretty nasty divorce, after a pretty crappy marriage and that was tough. But this was different. I felt like I was now a handicapped person who would be limited in their life and be looked at as a freak. My mental state was precarious, at best. 

But then I found this site. I just lurked a bit before posting. I read so many of the other stories and I started to see just how full my life can be, I was not handicapped,  and certainly not a freak! The stories of survival, the sense of humor, the support and compassion was inspiring.  It was then I made myself get out of the dark, and get my sh*t together.  

Not all rainbows and sunshine at first, hardly! But with grace from myself - to myself, and the kindness and willingness of the folks here to be supportive, non judgemental and openly share intimate details about their life circumstances,  l not only survived but thrived. 

I think of all the years I had suffered with such extreme pain, barely functioning,  and the many hospital stays and how that is all behind me now.  (All fingers, toes, and legs crossed that I never have to go near a hospital for myself ever again. I think I'd rather have a fork stuck in my eye. I loathe every about them.)  

So, to everyone who has been a part of this journey with me, to say thank you is not enough. I'm forever grateful to know you all.  My Angels, each one of you. 

 And as the Grateful Dead famously said,

"what a long strange trip it's been!"

Im so happy I'm tripping with you all.


AlexT
Mar 25, 2024 2:46 pm

I just don’t get the fascination with trying to figure out what she has/had. None of our business. Hope she recovers, gets over her cancer and goes on about her life. 

Ben38
Mar 25, 2024 3:23 pm

No point in playing guessing games; there's a good selection of cancers it could be. Just hope it's been caught early and wish her well and hope she makes a speedy recovery.

I know people with ostomies who say they haven't even told their parents they have one. Their life, their choice.

 

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Beachboy
Mar 25, 2024 4:00 pm

It is not possible to hide my colostomy; it's too big. Also, I was at church yesterday talking with friends when: Burrrrrap! My stoma decides to imitate a foghorn.

infinitycastle52777
Mar 25, 2024 8:14 pm

They do choose just the right moment to let one rip...

 

 

GraceFalls
Mar 25, 2024 11:48 pm

I did wonder about a possible ostomy. Yes, I zoomed in on pictures to see if there was a pouch. 
All should have privacy. 
It would be nice if someone famous talked about living with an ostomy. 
I have told all my relatives but not my grandchildren. They are 2 and 5. The eldest asked me why I always lock the bathroom door. I told her I like to poo by myself. Changing clothes around them is tricky. 
Just thinking it would be nice if an ostomy was accepted in our society. 

Panko
Mar 26, 2024 12:45 am

Yes, it crossed my mind too. Was she a bagger?

There was a rumor that the Queen's Mum had a bag too.

Hisbiscus
Mar 26, 2024 11:13 am

So sad. She's so young, but I guess none of us can hide from cancer if it wants to get us. I thought the same, wondering if she had to be bagged. She may come out later after she kicks its butt to tell us of her experience.

FreddyD
Mar 26, 2024 4:03 pm

Surely we can stop putting this young family under the microscope for everything. If Katherine has a stoma I am sure that she would tell people that this is the case.  Let this poor family deal with the cancer and when they have come to terms with it I am sure we will find out all about it. I know that my ileostomy was an emergency operation and I am still coming to terms with it three months later. 

vanestag
Mar 26, 2024 4:40 pm

When my grandchildren were little, I had a special name for my stoma. I always referred to the noise as "Lucy" just making noise, or she needed her clothes changed. They are now 25 and 23 years old, and we are still talking about Lucy!

ahynes111
Mar 26, 2024 8:14 pm

Might be a tad traumatic for a child...but it wasn't so bad when my grandmother comes out in the wee hours of the night with no teeth!

 

GraceFalls
May 19, 2024 1:46 am

Love this. I hide my bag from my grandchildren, ages 2 and 5. I lock the door on the bathroom. Never did this before. My granddaughter (5) doesn't understand why I now lock the door. She is always knocking. I just say, "Out in a bit." I hate the hiding.

 

TerryLT
Jun 17, 2024 8:05 pm

This is hysterical!!  LOL!

vrcom
Jun 18, 2024 6:31 pm

Hello, yes, I go to church and hope for the best that it doesn't erupt during the quiet moments, though it has happened, and I just pointed at my dad!