Here's the thing, I had an emergency ileostomy in October 2010 but had been too ill to work since September and as a result, lost my new job. Because I was so ill and had lost so much weight, it's taking me a long time to recover. I still have UC in my remaining colon which I am waiting to have removed. This has gotten worse since my azathioprine was stopped to be ready for surgery. I have been on ESA and failed my ATOS medical (apparently I was too optimistic, honest, and proud according to a benefits advisor after the medical!) so was advised I was no longer entitled to ESA and had to claim Jobseeker's Allowance at the beginning of May. At my medical, I provided evidence of an appointment for a J-Pouch reversal in June; this was ignored. I now have to go to a tribunal to appeal the decision. I don't know how I can declare myself available to work when I am still ill and when I am facing 2 major surgeries again. Yesterday, my operation was canceled for the 3rd time and rescheduled for the end of August now. It is not my fault this keeps happening - believe me, I would rather it didn't. I really don't know where this leaves me regarding my appeal and I don't know what to do to get it through to these people that if I was well enough to work and available to work, I would, but I really can't. I'm so upset and stressed out by this and I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall. Has anyone else had to deal with this? Any helpful suggestions?
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