I'm now almost three months out of medical facilities with my new, super volume ileostomy. I've tried various products and have basically settled on the Hollister lock and roll pouch and convex wafer. At times I was changing my pouch a few times a day - harsh on my seal and expensive! I cannot handle looking at waste (and yes, I've tried non-transparent but they are smaller). Last week I thought, "Huh, why can't I pour clean water through the lock and roll opening and clear out the pouch?" This has changed my life for the better. I even pack a small empty water bottle with my supplies when I go out because it's so easy to do. Do many do this? I feel a little silly that I didn't think about this sooner and just kept getting more depressed by the day. The belt my ostomy nurse gave me I now wear 24 hours a day. No more heavy pulling on my wafer when my pouch gets full.
Any little tips and tricks greatly appreciated!
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Hi Mike and all. I am not sure how panoramic my perspective really is as my peripheral vision shrinks with each passing year. I can tell you that when I came to this website six years ago I was truly ;impressed by the positive attitudes of so many members, especially the younger folks who refused to let their ostomies define who they were or what they would become. I also came to appreciate that having an ostomy is not the same thing as having a disease. Pardon ;my pun now, but ostomies and cancer don't belong in the same bag. One is a solution, the other is a problem. Celebrating National Ostomy Day ;is also well outside my comfort zone. That's like celebrating National Wheel Chair Day. Come on!
I think there is a ;need for improved ;public awareness of ostomies, but I am not sure how that's best done. There ;remains ;some social stigma attached to our situation, and it's acutely felt among our young. We need to get out of the dark ages on this issue, but not by going 'in your face' to everyone else. I think Bill and NDY are 'spot-on' when it comes to telegraphing the right message to friends and family. People will know how to react when they ;see ;how we accept the cards we were dealt. I also appreciate the contribution some people here are making to this effort through their publications.
On a personal note, my son has been suffering from ulcerative colitis for years just like I did. I am very concerned because people with UC are at a higher risk for colon cancer. Years ago my GI told me to get annual colonoscopies to be on the safe side. I am glad I did because he eventually found pre-cancerous cells which led to several surgeries and my becoming an ostomate. Since then I have always ;conveyed a positive attitude to ;my son about wearing a bag because it has kept me alive to enjoy many more years with my loved ones. I think he got the message. We both go to the same gastroenterologist in NYC and get scoped on the same day. Father and Son moments!
Someone once wrote that our children are the letters we write to the future.
PB
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