I recently had a peristomal hernia/prolapse repaired with mesh. Now my stoma is below the skin, like down in a funnel. I have a belly—not huge, but 25 lbs overweight. The skin is ulcerated around the stoma, bleeds, so nothing will stick. I have tried crusting, hydrocolloid rings, and they do not stick because of the oozing/leaks. I just cannot wear a convex wafer because it pushes so much on my belly. The Hollister wafers—flat or convex—are so firm; when I move around or bend (even sitting in a chair, reaching forward for something), the firm barrier pushes the wafer away from my body. The stool is pasty, collects behind the ring in my wafer, and within a day, leaks so badly the wafer adhesion fails. Nothing seems to work for me. I have purchased a tube of 100% silicone and am tempted to try it. Any meaningful suggestions will be appreciated. Thank you.

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