Finding Hope After Emergency Surgery

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tbird56b
May 22, 2025 2:50 am

I was rushed into emergency surgery on Feb 23 this year. At first, I didn't think I could cope with the mess. I have found products that make it easier. At first, I cried constantly. Now I can shower without a tape covering.
I still hate the ostomy, but I'm not crying all the time. My family has been wonderful, helping with everything. The backup support is vital.

IGGIE
May 22, 2025 3:56 am

G-Day tbird56b,

Well done, and it does get better as you get more used to your new norm.

Regards, IGGIE

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This site was a true lifeline when I first became a member back in 1997. The support I received during the time of a critical time in my life.was greatly needed. I met so many wonderful people that became like family. And fell in love with a wonderful woman from the UK. Visited here and later had her come to me here in the states.

Axl
May 22, 2025 4:57 am

Hi tbird

I'm happy you are finding your way.

Everyone does in the end.

Good for you.

SusanT
May 22, 2025 12:05 pm

Keep moving forward. You can do anything with an ostomy that you could do without it. So get out there and start doing what you like. The ostomy will fade into the background once you are enjoying your life again.

Morning glory
May 22, 2025 1:17 pm

So happy for you that you are adjusting and moving forward. It does get better and the family support makes it even better.

 

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Justbreathe
May 22, 2025 2:23 pm

Family and friends are great support. Finding this website will be a huge help as well - the folks here truly understand your feelings (fears) and will answer so many of your questions as well as your “unasked” questions.

WELCOME 🫶🏼👊 jb

TerryLT
May 22, 2025 9:11 pm

I totally relate. I ended up with an ostomy after a trip to the ER myself, so no time to prepare for the huge change in my life. It is a big adjustment, but it sounds like you are getting there. Good for you. Once you've found a system that works for you, it's a big step. And having a good support system is vital. This group has helped me in so many ways.

Terry

Hugo
May 22, 2025 9:50 pm

I also had emergency surgery that resulted in having an ostomy. Without it, I would have died. It took me a long time to adjust to my new normal. It's still very early in your recovery, and you seem to be coping very well. You're right where you're supposed to be.

MistyMcD
May 23, 2025 5:22 am

I absolutely agree! The first few months were rough, but now I don't allow my ostomy to keep me from doing anything I want to do. I actually can do more now than I could before surgery because I was so ill prior to surgery that I was practically homebound.