Managing Colostomy and Fibromyalgia Together: Seeking Advice

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winter.41.girl
Jun 06, 2025 12:14 pm

Hi everyone, hope you are all having the best day you can.

I have had my colostomy for 4 years following treatment for colorectal cancer and have been plodding along okay, or so I thought. Over the last 12 to 18 months, the fatigue and pain levels had been gradually building again until I realized that I felt the same way as when I was having radiation therapy. Blood tests and GP visits have resulted in a diagnosis of fibromyalgia, probably triggered by the trauma of dealing with recurrent cancer.
I'm trying to get my head around how best to manage both conditions alongside each other and wonder whether anyone has been through the same and can offer advice and any tips?

Many, many thanks x

Mimipark
Jun 06, 2025 12:25 pm
Very helpful

Hello. I hope that you are finding some sunshine in your day.

While I have not had cancer, I have fibro since 1998. Over the years, and after trying many medications, I have gone with behavior modification. The medications seemed to make things worse for me, and one doctor told me that because of my fibro, my body does not process medications (especially those that affect your serotonin) the way it should. My daily pain level has remained at about a 5/6, and I've just become so used to it now. On days when I am very tired or just don't feel "good," I rest. I only do what is absolutely necessary, and sometimes it's just sitting and reading or watching TV, knitting, and very rarely napping. For the first 10 years, I did take different supplements, so check with your doctor to see if you might benefit from certain vitamins, minerals, or herbs. One thing I was told to stay away from was phosphates. So I don't drink Pepsi anymore, or any dark soda, and I rarely treat myself to a Sprite or Ginger Ale anymore. Try increasing your water intake to 64 ounces or more. I can usually tell when I haven't had enough water as I begin to not feel so good.

Your body and mind have had quite the trauma; perhaps some meditation, yoga, or even gentle exercise may help you to feel better.

I have only had my colostomy for 8 weeks now, and that was quite a mental blow for me, but I just try to do better than the day before, and when I'm having a bad day, well... I'm having a bad day, but I try not to let it last the whole day.

I am sure there are others here that will be of help. This is a wonderful group.

Posted by: iMacG5

About seven years ago, just about every aspect of my life was ostomy related. From the moment I was told an ostomy might be needed until some months down the road I existed as a person afflicted with a colostomy. I feared someone other than my immediate family might find out I had a bag. Ugh! What could be worse? Suppose it filled real fast when I was out with no place to hide and take care of myself. God forbid should it leak in church! Suppose I roll over on it in bed. I was a lesser creature, destined to a life of emotional anguish and physical routines different from most of the rest of the world. I felt like a freak. Then I found folks like you guys here, read your stuff, really “listened” to what you had to say and I began looking at things differently. We know perception is everything and I began to understand how good things were relative to what they could’ve been. So many folks had it so much worse than I did. That didn’t make my discomfort go away but it exposed how fortunate I was to be dealing with my stuff and not their’s. I felt a little guilt, maybe selfishness but quickly forgave myself by understanding I just wasn’t smart enough to fix my feelings. Then, I wonder what smarts have to do with feelings. My perception was warped so my perspective toward my existence was warped.
I learned over the last few years with the help of lots of folks right here at MAO that I could be better at living just by accepting some facts. It is what it is and so what? It’s not the worst thing to happen to a person.
I think everything is, in some way, related to everything else. I just put the ostomy thing in the back seat and drive forward.
Respectfully,
Mike

IGGIE
Jun 06, 2025 12:51 pm
Very helpful

I wish you both a much better life and hope that someone here can be of help. Some people here think they are having a bad day with a leak as if it is the end of the world, but you guys are on a different level. Good luck and sending good vibes your way.

Regards, IGGIE

SusanT
Jun 06, 2025 4:40 pm

I don't have fibromyalgia, but I did have cancer. I'm so sorry you have this after all you've been through with cancer.

I find that I feel better when I stay away from highly processed foods. I don't know if that will help you or not.

TerryLT
Jun 06, 2025 9:13 pm

Hi there, Sorry to hear about your troubles. I'm glad you found this group, as there are bound to be others here who can relate to fibromyalgia. I'm just curious, is there an actual blood test now to diagnose this? I don't think that was the case several years ago.

Terry

 

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winter.41.girl
Jun 06, 2025 9:42 pm

Hi Terry, no blood test can diagnose; just tests to rule out other potential causes of the symptoms, like thyroid problems. Unfortunately, life is never that easy.

Rachael

SusanT
Jun 08, 2025 3:28 am

Do you have an elevated ANA titer with fibromyalgia? For some reason, I thought you did. While not a diagnostic test, it could be part of a bigger picture.

bowsprit
Jun 10, 2025 5:57 pm

From all accounts, that can be a beast of an ailment. Somebody who has it said that stem cell therapy helped her. It was performed by the local branch of an American company that specializes in such treatments specifically for fibromyalgia. Hopefully, stem cell treatment may be of help to you as well. All the best wishes.