Pain is relative, and there is always a risk of complications when surgery changes your body. I had my reversal on December 9, 2024 (9 months and 9 days after emergency surgery for a perforated sigmoid colon). It was via robotic surgery with a fantastic general surgeon in Stockton.
The worst part of the surgery was the nursing care in the hospital afterward. I was expecting to be there for 5 days, but after 3, I asked my surgeon to discharge me because I didn't feel safe with the care.
I had no complications with the reconnection part of the surgery. A week after the reversal, I did have to go back to the surgeon to fix cellulitis (wound infection). Nursing care was better that time, and I left with a wound vac.
Overall, the pain was minimal (usually 5-6 and no more than a 7-8 at any time). The only time I needed pain meds was during wound changes (I had a home nurse come in twice a week). I have extremely sensitive skin, and the adhesive was painful on my skin.
About a month after the reversal, my surgeon and I talked about the two hernias I got. One midline near the belly button was caused by the first surgery, and another at the stoma site (the bigger of the two).
My surgeon suggested living with them if they caused no problems. By the end of February, they caused discomfort and limited my activity.
I finally had the double hernia reversal on July 17, so I think that makes me 7 weeks post-op. The surgeon sutured the hernias internally and placed a large (one-piece) biological mesh over both repairs. I am overweight, and he promised to reinforce things for me.
The hernia repair surgery was 1000 times more painful than any surgery before (my surgeon warned me). I mean, pain like I never thought possible. The first 4 days were rough. I kept telling myself it was temporary.
Today I have discomfort where the stoma hernia was. I think it is because I developed a deep and large seroma. There were also a lot of tacks holding the mesh in place. If it continues past 12 weeks, I will get a CT scan to make sure the repair held. Hernia recurrence is common.
Would I do the reversal again? In a heartbeat. There was no way I was going to live with a colostomy for the rest of my life. I was prepared for much worse.
I am generally in good health and turning 58 in a couple of weeks. The younger and healthier you are, the easier the reversal.
Your surgeon also makes a difference. Don't settle for anyone. Find one you connect with, who listens to your concerns, and thoroughly answers your questions. If you are in the Stockton, CA area, I have the best surgeon ever! I traveled from out of town just to have him do the reversal.
Let me know if you have questions.