ONE THING THAT I’VE LEARNED ON THIS SITE is how many different bodily malfunctions can lead to a person having to have ostomy surgery. In my own case, it was ulcerative colitis which, after a painful and lengthy preliminary engagement, put me in the hospital in November, 1963. I was in sorry shape, hurting badly, and confined in what was called a semi-private room in upstate New York. Televisions were not as common then as now, and if you wanted one in your room, it cost extra, which my relatives had sprung for, even though I was somewhat beyond being able to appreciate the gesture. One day, nurses and other hospital staff began crowding into my room to watch the TV. I had no idea why. There was a lot of exclaiming, people coming back and forth. I was too sick to comprehend what was happening. It was November 22, 1963. John F. Kennedy had just been assassinated in Dallas. Later, in retrospect, I realized how fortunate I was. At least I survived.
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This site has been a blessing for me in learning how to cope with and navigate this journey as an ostomate. I have a colostomy as a result of a perforation in my colon since May of this year. I don't know yet if it will be permanent or reversible. The people on here have provided me with so much advice and information about living with an ostomy that I don't think I could get anywhere else. You all have given me hope and a place to come to for support. I still struggle with acceptance, but know that it will come if I am patient. Patience has never been my strong suit! Also, I love all the humor, although it really pissed me off when I first came on here. Thanks to all of you.
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