Hello to all you wonderful people. I have been in the background reading everything on this site. I have learned so much, and now see that I am "normal" in my reactions and process to my ileostomy.
For me, emergency operation due to blocked small bowel, ruptured diverticulitis, and perforated/abscessed colon, and all of it was adhered. 5 years ago, I had a colon resection due to repeated hospitalizations for diverticulitis. 8 weeks ago, this surgery. The surgeon saved my life but didn't fix problems, couldn't even get to the perforations. I have a specialist now who basically said it's a disaster in there! Lol. In April, I go back in for a 10-hour surgery...with probable colon removal. He can't say if he can hook the small intestine to the rectum, or have a permanent ileostomy. Many more tests and healing to do. I am hopeful that even if he can't reverse me, that he can move the stoma to a better spot. It's level with my navel, right in the crease where you bend, etc.
I lost my husband one year ago, so this happening is a double whammy...but, I will survive...as the song says.
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I'm grateful for this forum, and everyone in here. Thanks for listening.
Laura
WOW......First, I'd like to say that I'm so-o-o sorry for the loss of your husband. I can't imagine the courage, willpower, and determination it would take to overcome such tremendous adversity, as you've been confronted with in only a year! Not only are you an incredible inspiration, but I think you've certainly earned more than an "Honorable Mention" in the "Super Hero" category!!! ............................................................................
Please know that I wish you blessings of comfort in your loss, the best possible outcome with your upcoming surgical challenges, and the "speediest" of recoveries!!! With your wonderful outlook, courageous and unbelievable fortitude, the sky is the limit for you!!!
I so-o-o admire your spirit, my friend
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My dear lady,
You should not have waited so long to "make yourself known." Everyone here will wish you well, and you will always find a sympathetic ear. I too, am sorry for your loss.
God bless and get well.
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Hello Laura, Welcome to the club. Sorry you are having troubles. When I read about other people's troubles, mine seem small in comparison. I have learned so much by reading other people's experiences. And there are so many caring and thoughtful people on this site to give you support. Good luck and keep us all informed with your progress.
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Hi Laura, sorry that you had a loss of your hubby, and all that's happened to you. I hope you find friendship here with all these wonderful people, who do and will support each other. I for one am grateful for having found this site. I do hope all goes to plan. Please keep us updated with your progress. Tc, ambies.
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Hello Laura, and nice to see you come out from the background, nice approach. There is a wealth of information on this site, and other than myself, there are great people too! Welcome and enjoy.
Welcome along, Laura. Your story certainly puts mine in its place. Like Donna has already said, we all have learned so much by reading each other's journeys. It really helps put everything in perspective. I know you'll find lots of wonderful people here, and I don't think I'd be where I am today without them. Take good care, Colm
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Hey Laura, and welcome to the club, the Club of Hardknocks. Sometimes I'm glad you have popped into the forums, and maybe we can get into general chat (which can be a challenge) with timelines from all parts of the world. And yeah, we do learn from others. I don't feel like, "Oh, I feel better now; someone is worse off." My pain isn't someone else's life; it's mine, and hell, some people on here have been through hell, and we all have our own hell and the good times too. We are all the same, same but different. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hope all goes well for you, Darlz. moozeeee x x x x
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Welcome, Laura.
Carol
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Hello Laura, I too have an ileostomy with my stoma in a very bad spot, but it will be 2 years in April, and I am so grateful that my pain is gone and my "BB" (stoma) and I have come to an agreement of sorts, so I am accepting my new lifestyle much better. I am in Virginia, and I go to a small support group at times; it does help. If you ever need to talk, we are here. I need to change my name; I am no longer a newcomer...LOL
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Hi new, well here's a suggestion for a new name: how about "Upgraded"? LOL. Having a bit of fun, now you may be bombarded with ideas. LOL. Take care, Ambies.
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Aww, hey Carol, I have been battling a recurring sore - ulcer right on the edge of my flange thingy. It's a real pain in the arse. Second time it's come back. Yeah, I guess I missed you too, darl. So, hey, what's been going on with you, darling? What's up with you, or not up with you? Hehehahaha LOL
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It's nearly 6 AM here in Melbourne. Crap summer so far. My hernia's been shitting me up the wall. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx The sore thingy started off as a small pimple, got bigger, thought I sorted it out, and BAM! My hernia, the whole thing, looked like I was out getting a rotten red burn. argggggggggggggggggggggggggggg xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Thanks, Carol. My sister is a Carol too, or Cazz, I call her. Hope you're doing well, sweetie pie. Heheheh, it's way too early for me. I'm at my naughty time. HAHA. See ya xx
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Oh yeah, the two hernias ain't no help either. Bugger.
Well, I had cancer. Then, as I was getting over it, I lost my husband. Years later, I had a burst appendix! Two serious operations later, I have a urostomy bag, but God knows where we get the strength to carry on. I think the saying "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is so true. Good luck.
With your name, Laura, you will survive! My name is also Laura, and I have survived so many cancer surgeries I don't have much more inside me to get cancer again! I also have an ileostomy (4-11). Stay with this site; it is so encouraging and offers lots of information. Best of health to you—Laura.