A melon-sized hernia appeared overnight. It is uncomfortable, but I'm worried about a few things.
I want to have a Hartmans reversal in 12 months, and I'm worried if it will affect the reversal. They want to do the op at the time of reversal, but if it gets any bigger and if they have to operate sooner, will that reduce the chance of success?
Also, I'm worried about bowel strangulation as I already live with PTSD from almost dying from bowel perforation. My fear is escalated with the arrival of the hernia.
Lastly, it's so visible, and I feel like such a freak with a huge one-sided hump. Does anyone else feel self-conscious, and how large are your hernias?
Peace, bluebel

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