Can I raise a delicate issue with members.
Do members experience sexual frustration, with no ability to achieve satisfaction, resulting from treatment and surgery.
In my case six years ago I was diagnosed with early stage Prostrate cancer. I received radio therapy which largely rendered me impotent. Just over a year later I was diagnosed with Rectal Cancer which the hospital had missed. A Colostomy and associated treatment destroyed any remaining penis functionality (if you get my meaning) and a complete inability to ejaculate.
So while the mechanics stopped working, unfortunately the mind doesn't and if possible I get more deep and erotic thoughts than ever before resulting in a very high level of sexual frustration. This manifests itself largely through deeply sexual and erotic poo dreams, unconscious mock masturbation, and sleep talking. (My wife deals with the situation by delivering a heavy kick and "stop that !").
A cruel twist is that as part of the Prostrate treatment I was on six months of Hormone therapy which has resulted in very hard and sensitive nipples and even more sensitive genitals.
I wonder if any other members have experienced similar problems and how they deal with sexual frustration.