Ladies And Gentlemen (Freedom Of Expression)
My trip to New Jersey gave me time to think about various things going on in my life at present and in the past. You see, growing up in my environment that is, in New Jersey my culture, being in the northeastern part of the united states, it's nothing for a women to shave her head. I didnt know I would feel so free! However in the south or the midwest most people are not truly ready for that!
Some women may have a bald head from cancer, autoimmune disease or simply by choice. You really has to have an attitude to wear it and be happy with yourself. Meaning, love you and do you!! There goes that inner beauty that I spoke about in my blog, " Beautiful." As stated earlier some are bald due to cancer treatment and some have hereditary baldness, While others just decide to just do it. With men no one thinks to question or gawk or even ask why. Some will make rude comments or or ask stupid questions such as , "are you sick or what stage are you in in your chemo?" You can ignore them or simply say to them, "can you make me better or will you make me better. You certainly are not my brothers or sisters keeper. You feel me?
My analogy: You're in a shoe store and everyones taste is different. Some women wear 2 inch heels while others prefer 5 inches. Men taste is not the same either, their views are as diversified as we are. I can quote many old school sayings such as, " what ever will be will be or it is what it is." Freedom to me is acknowledgement of that nobody can be you but you! So, do you! I'm doing me, So what's your reality? Just expressing my freedom. Now express your self!