Need Some Inspiration Today
Just found out my ex Narc significant other is trolling on the same Ostomy sites ....AWKWARD! I really thought he was my Ostomate for life.. Honest people are hard to come by and the World is seeming like a MUCH smaller place.
I have been on these Ostomy sites for some time now and I felt very fortunate a few years ago when I met who I thought would be the end of my searching for that human being who finally got me..Well needless to say this person was not forthcoming about their mental and emotional state and I barely escaped this person who lived in the fringes of society which until I did a background check had not a clue...Call me naive but I don't believe we should have to do background checks on every person we bring into our inner circles and close to us? Has anyone had a positive experience with emotionally healthy individuals not to say I'm perfect but I believe in self improvement and I am in therapy not because of any mental illness but because of the guilt I've felt over being sick and being a single mother and caregiver!! Mental health goes so disregarded and I think everyone could use therapy after going through trauma like so many of us have here. I would love to hear what your thoughts are on this subject..and should I alert the people the ex are trolling for to warn them like I was finally warned by their exes to run as fast as I could away from this person. I wouldn't wish the chaos and destruction this person caused on anyone...!
Regards to my fellow compadres!!