Topic Explanation:
The initial post is about the possibility of having intimate sexual relations while having an ostomy without the partner being aware of it. The poster is seeking detailed explanations and advice on how this could be achieved.
Advice and Insights:
- Some members suggest using sexy lingerie, such as bustiers, corsets, crotchless, leather, or silk, to enhance intimacy and divert attention from the ostomy.
- One member shares a story of someone using basques and pushing their partner's hands away from the ostomy during intimate moments.
- Another member suggests using covers or getting custom-made covers for the ostomy to conceal it during intimate moments.
- Some members express skepticism about the possibility of hiding the ostomy during intimate moments, emphasizing the challenges of concealing it.
- One member shares their experience of using an elastic wrap to conceal the ostomy during intimate moments, emphasizing the importance of being comfortable with one's own body and being open with the partner about the ostomy.
Conclusion:
The discussion covers various perspectives on the topic, including humor, personal experiences, and practical advice for maintaining intimacy while having an ostomy.
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