Topic Explanation:
The initial post is from a woman seeking advice from others who have had an ileostomy surgery and left their anal stump in place, specifically regarding concerns about vaginal intercourse after the surgery.

Replies - Advice and Insights:
1. Every patient's experience with ileostomy surgery can vary, and it's important to allow the body time to heal before engaging in physically taxing activities, including sex.
2. Discuss concerns with the surgeon and find one with experience in this area of the body.
3. Leaving a rectal stump in place can support the pelvic floor and potentially make a difference in experiencing issues with vaginal intercourse.
4. Some individuals have not experienced problems with vaginal intercourse after having their rectal stump removed, while others have felt tightness during intercourse.
5. Standing up and bending over during intercourse may help avoid discomfort caused by the absence of the rectum to support the vagina when lying on the back.
6. Some individuals have found vaginal intercourse to be extremely painful after ileostomy surgery, and have found other ways to have adult fun instead.