Topic Explanation:
The forum topic is about the recovery progress after surgery, particularly focusing on the experience of having an ileostomy due to complications from diverticulitis. The original poster is seeking advice and support as they are struggling with mild abdominal and back pain almost 3 weeks post-surgery.

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- Recovery from major surgery takes time, and it's important to remember that the body needs to heal and adjust.
- Everyone heals differently, but typically it takes about a month to start feeling better after such a major surgery.
- Take pain medication regularly to manage discomfort, and gradually wean off them as the body starts to heal.
- It's normal to experience tenderness and occasional pain as the body tightens and strengthens post-surgery.
- Weight gain can be a struggle post-surgery, but it's important to eat and snack regularly, and add weight slowly.
- It's essential to maintain a positive attitude and not let the surgery stop you from enjoying life.
- It's common for individuals to feel grateful for their own situation after hearing about the challenges others have faced during their recovery.

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