This topic is about someone who has recently gone through a series of significant surgeries, including an oophorectomy, ileum surgery, and an emergency procedure that resulted in an ileostomy and a right hemicolectomy. These surgeries have left them feeling very weak and struggling with weight issues. They are reaching out to others for advice and shared experiences regarding recovery.

Here are some helpful insights and advice for anyone in a similar situation:

1. Recovery is a personal journey and can vary greatly from person to person. Factors like age and health before surgery play a big role. It's normal to feel exhausted even weeks after surgery, and needing help for simple tasks is common.

2. After an ileostomy, it can take weeks or even months for the small intestine to adjust and improve its ability to absorb nutrients and fluids. Weight gain might be slow, so it's important to be patient and gradually increase activity levels.

3. Experiencing significant weight loss after having part of the colon removed is not unusual. The colon itself weighs a few pounds, and its removal affects the body's ability to absorb water and nutrients, contributing to weight loss. Multiple surgeries, a lack of appetite, vomiting, and eating less during hot weather can also affect weight.

4. For those with a temporary ileostomy, regaining weight is possible once your food intake stabilizes. Focus on eating calorie-rich, easy-to-digest foods and keep an eye on how well your body is absorbing nutrients.

5. Feeling tired is a normal part of recovery after undergoing three major surgeries. It's important not to rush yourself. Allow your body the time it needs to heal, build up your strength slowly, and trust that you will feel better over time.