This topic is about coming to terms with the feelings of grief that can accompany having an ostomy. It explores the emotional journey and encourages a shift in perspective to help individuals cope better with their situation.

- Many people initially blame the ostomy for their distress. However, it's important to remember that serious health issues like Crohn’s disease, IBS, cancer, medical errors, or accidents often lead to the need for an ostomy in the first place.
- The message encourages recognizing that a stoma is often a solution to a more severe problem. It suggests focusing on acceptance and adjustment rather than placing blame on the ostomy itself.
- The overall tone is realistic yet positive, highlighting the importance of resilience and making the best of life with an ostomy.
- The author shares that their own experience with a severe case of diverticulitis led to their ostomy and inspired them to write a poem about it.
- Forum members appreciate the poem's positive and inspirational message. They agree that while the changes an ostomy brings can be challenging, accepting reality and moving forward is the healthiest approach.