This topic is all about the idea of naming your stoma. Some people find it fun, a helpful coping strategy, or simply not necessary. Here's a look at why some choose to give their stoma a name and some tips if you're considering it:

- The originator of the discussion shared that their ostomy nurse mentioned many patients name their stomas. They named theirs "Marvin" after Marvin the Martian because it looked like a small alien right after surgery. Over time, it became "Marvin Rose" and sometimes "Marvin Rose Rays" due to a funny slip by their mother. Other playful names included "Marvelous Marvin," "the super-pooper," and "The Liquidator." Naming the stoma helped them talk about care needs in public without having to explain the ostomy.

- The originator is on their second stoma, having had three surgeries in two years. They and their mother often talk to Marvin, finding humor a great way to cope: "If I’m laughing, I’m not crying." They also encouraged supportive comments after some negative ones appeared in the discussion.

- Many ostomates choose names for fun, humor, and easier public reference. Some examples shared were Herb, Briella, Brook, Luna McFart, Winnie, Fred, Bilbo, Charlie, Rosie, and Petunia.

- An ostomy nurse reportedly mentioned that people who name their stoma tend to recover better, as having a "relationship" with the new body part might help with acceptance.

- Naming your stoma can:
1. Provide a discreet way to excuse yourself in public ("Charlie needs a change").
2. Add some lightness to a challenging situation, reducing anxiety for both the patient and their loved ones.

- Some people feel no need to name their stoma, seeing it as just another body part. It's a personal choice, and all opinions should be respected.

- If you're thinking about naming your stoma, here are some tips:
1. Match the name to its appearance (e.g., "Stumpy," "Red Velvet," "Brook" for burbling sounds).
2. Use humor or pop-culture references (e.g., "Stormin’ Norman," "Gremlin," "Stella’s House of Horrors").
3. Choose a name that symbolizes strength or positivity (e.g., "Briella" meaning "God is my strength").

Remember, whether you choose to name your stoma or not, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable and supported.