This topic is about someone who recently had a colostomy reversal surgery and is now adjusting to life back at home. She is feeling a mix of emotions, including happiness and gratitude, despite being self-conscious about her swollen and scarred abdomen. She found comfort and support from reading comments in a forum during her journey and is thankful for the kindness and bravery of others.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Many people congratulate her and encourage her to maintain a positive outlook, reminding her that this is the beginning of a new chapter in her life.

2. It's normal to experience abdominal swelling and to feel that the appearance is not ideal at first. However, as the swelling goes down, things will start to look better.

3. It's important to take recovery slowly. Rest, allow your body to heal gently, and remember that it has been through a lot.

4. Some people see surgical scars and changes to the abdomen as a "badge of honor." They suggest embracing these marks as symbols of resilience and strength.