This topic is about someone who is dealing with the uncertainty of scheduling two surgeries: gallbladder removal and a new colostomy. They initially received conflicting information about the surgery dates, which made it difficult to plan and prepare mentally. Eventually, both surgeries were confirmed to be on the same day, which brought some relief. The person is also concerned about attending a family gathering a month after the surgery and is seeking advice on recovery and travel.

Here are some helpful insights and advice shared by others:

1. Stay confident and take recovery one day at a time. Keeping in touch with supportive communities can be reassuring.

2. Many people hoped the surgeries could be done earlier in June to allow more recovery time before the family gathering on July 11.

3. Traveling after surgery:
- One person managed to attend a wedding two weeks after a similar procedure by reclining during a 2-hour drive and leaving early.
- Another person traveled 4 hours in a pickup truck after surgery, using medication to manage discomfort from bumps, and found cars to be smoother.

4. Recovery timeline considerations:
- If the colostomy is done on June 19, there would be just over three weeks before the trip. The recovery feasibility depends on whether the surgery is open or laparoscopic.
- Open surgery typically requires a longer recovery, possibly involving physical or occupational therapy, and at least a week in the hospital with a gradual diet progression.
- Complications like infections or blood-pressure issues can extend the hospital stay to two weeks or more.

5. Learning to manage a stoma involves a learning curve. Hospital staff will provide training on emptying and changing the appliance, as well as skin care. Having strong partner support can be very helpful during this process.

6. With a month between the surgery on June 10 and the family gathering on July 11, there is optimism that the person can recover, learn ostomy care, and still enjoy time with family.