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Jun 09, 2025

Dating with a Urostomy: How Difficult Is It?

Topic Explanation:
The forum discussion revolves around the challenges and experiences of dating with a urostomy. Participants share their personal stories and insights on how having a urostomy or other types of ostomies can impact romantic relationships and dating life.

Advice and Insights:
1. Confidence and Attitude:
- Confidence and mindset are crucial. If you let the urostomy affect your confidence, it can ruin your dating experience.
- You are still the same person you were before the ostomy, and maintaining a positive attitude is important.

2. Disclosure and Acceptance:
- Some people choose not to disclose their ostomy immediately, as it is not always noticeable.
- If someone is not accepting of the ostomy, it indicates they are not the right person for you.

3. Personal Experiences:
- Many have found partners who are not bothered by the ostomy, and some even find it intriguing.
- Rejection can happen, but it is important to move on and continue searching for someone who appreciates you for who you are.

4. Overcoming Rejection:
- Rejection is a part of dating, and it is important to not let it deter you from finding the right person.
- The dating pool may seem larger, but this can help in quickly identifying the right match.

5. Support and Community:
- Engaging with communities of people with similar experiences can provide support and potential dating opportunities.
- Sharing experiences with others who understand can be comforting and empowering.

6. Self-Worth and Resilience:
- It is important to recognize your own strength and resilience in dealing with the challenges of having an ostomy.
- Do not let others dictate your self-worth; believe in your own value and capabilities.
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