This topic is all about welcoming and encouraging new ostomates, those who have recently undergone ostomy surgery. The original poster, after taking a break from social media, returned to find a lot of unread posts and decided to extend a warm welcome to all the newcomers. Here are some key points they shared:

- None of us chose to have a stoma, but for many, it has been a life-saving procedure. It's important to remember that you're not alone in this journey.

- This forum has been a great source of support, especially during the early days of recovery. The kindness, encouragement, and support from others can really help in accepting and adapting to this new way of life.

- Feel free to ask any questions, no matter how unusual they may seem. This is a safe space where no question is too odd.

- On a personal note, the original poster shared that they had a busy July filled with swimming, spending time with grandkids, and organizing a surprise 85th birthday party for their father, which brought together friends who hadn't seen each other in over a decade.

Here are some helpful insights and advice:

1. Being part of a supportive community can be a "lifesaver." Sharing experiences and giving or receiving feedback can make adjusting to life with a stoma much easier.

2. It's possible and encouraged to enjoy normal activities, like swimming and family gatherings, after ostomy surgery. Life doesn't stop; it just takes a new direction.

3. Celebrations and maintaining social connections, such as organizing surprise parties, show that life can still be fulfilling and joyful after surgery.