Dating can be a bit of an adventure, and having an ostomy bag might make you wonder about your options. You might be asking yourself if you should only date others who have an ostomy. Here are some thoughts and advice to consider:

1. You don't need to limit yourself to dating only those with an ostomy. What's more important is finding someone with whom you share common interests and compatibility, rather than focusing on whether they have a similar medical situation.

2. It might be challenging to find another ostomate in your local area, so being open to dating non-ostomates can significantly increase your chances of meeting someone special.

3. Many people, especially those in medical or educated fields, tend to be understanding and matter-of-fact when you explain your situation. They are less likely to be shocked or surprised.

4. When you decide to share this part of your life, keep your explanation short and use clear medical terms. Let them know that the bag is discreet, perhaps covered by a wrap, to help ease any fears or misconceptions they might have.

5. If someone seems taken aback, it often comes from a place of not knowing or being concerned about your health rather than disgust. Addressing their concerns calmly can help clear up any misunderstandings.