Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about seeking advice on how to help a husband gain weight after having an ileostomy. The person is struggling to find food and drinks that her husband can tolerate and is looking for advice on how to motivate him to eat and move around more.

Advice and Insights
- Some members suggested specific foods that helped them gain weight after ileostomy, such as pasta with meat sauce, oatmeal with toast and peanut butter, smoothies with favorite fruits, and a diet high in protein.
- Others recommended high-protein diet, protein bars, protein shakes, and adding cream cheese to meals to gain weight gradually.
- One member shared their experience of gaining weight by eating oatmeal with brown sugar and coffee cream, stir fry with chicken and vegetables, and having a midnight snack.
- Members advised the importance of eating small meals every couple of hours, focusing on protein and nutrient-rich foods, and consuming high-calorie foods like brownies and ice cream.
- Some members suggested avoiding dairy products due to digestion difficulties and recommended liquid vitamins, chewable or gummy vitamins, and vitamin B12 injections for better absorption.
- A member advised against overdoing it and emphasized the importance of taking vitamins, prescribed medications, resting, and getting adequate electrolyte intake.
- One member shared their experience of a surgery to relieve blockages in the bowel and recommended avoiding caffeine and adding cheese to meals for weight gain.
- Another member suggested that the person with an ileostomy should be more responsible for finding foods and calories to maintain weight and recommended a diet with high-calorie foods like chips, pudding, and ice cream.
- Some members advised against overhelping and suggested that the person with an ileostomy should be encouraged to take care of themselves to build self-confidence.
- A member shared their experience of gaining weight by eating at fast-food restaurants.
- Some members shared their experiences of gaining weight after ileostomy surgery, with one member mentioning that an ileostomy is a cause for weight gain.
- A member advised caution with high-carb foods like pasta, rice, potatoes, and bread to put on weight.
- One member recommended Boost in the Juice form as a weight-gain option.

Conclusion
The forum discussion provided various insights and advice on gaining weight after ileostomy, including specific food recommendations, tips for better absorption of vitamins, and the importance of self-care and motivation.