Finding the right pair of jeans can be a bit of a challenge, especially if you're an ostomate looking for something that sits comfortably above or around your stoma. A fellow ostomate shared her experience of shopping for jeans and finding that most affordable options were low-rise, which didn't work well with her stoma. She reached out to others for advice on finding jeans that offer the right fit and support. Here are some helpful suggestions and insights from the community:

- High-waisted or true-waist jeans that sit above the stoma:
1. Marks & Spencer (UK) offers waist-high jeans that are available online and provide hernia support.
2. Gap has regular-waist styles, with the "Long & Lean" cut being particularly recommended.
3. D2 and Next (UK) have standard-rise lines that sit on the natural waist without looking too "mumsy."
4. Gloria Vanderbilt "Amanda" stretch jeans are available at Kohl’s.
5. Riders "No-Gap Comfort Waistband" jeans can be found at Walmart for about $14.
6. Fidelity Denim "Belladonna" jeans are a pricier option, but their waistband sits at the top of the appliance for shorter-waisted individuals.
7. "Not Your Daughter’s Jeans" (NYDJ) offer a higher rise with Lycra for added comfort.
8. Osaka Tiger semi-high-waisted men’s jeans are also recommended.

- Mid-rise jeans as a compromise:
- Old Navy offers "low-mid-rise" jeans that are comfortable, figure-flattering, and high enough to prevent the appliance from popping out.

- Alternatives when standard jeans don’t work:
1. Men’s jeans often have a higher and roomier cut.
2. Suspenders or "braces" with loose-fit jeans can prevent waistband pressure on the stoma; look for clip-on "trigger" styles.
3. Maternity or post-maternity jeans, like "Bounce Back" styles, have a stretch panel that gently supports the pouch.
4. For ultimate comfort, consider sweatpants or elastic-waist trousers.

- Support underwear and stoma garments:
1. Comfizz ostomy underwear, available in unisex boxers and ladies’ briefs, holds the pouch flat without restricting flow.
2. Ostomy Secrets offers support wear for purchase.
3. Jockey "No Panty Line Promise Modal Hip Briefs" are silky and light, with a waistband that sits at the top of the appliance.
4. Lace shorts or regular thongs/G-strings can still be worn to maintain a feminine feel.
5. These support suggestions are also valid for men, with sizes M/L to L/XL available.

- Practical tips and observations:
1. High-waisted styles are making a comeback, which can make shopping easier.
2. Loose-fit or boot-cut legs help minimize pancaking when the waistband is higher.
3. Soft belts, like canvas or grip-buckle types, can be worn if jeans are slightly loose.
4. Always check pouch flow after dressing; supportive underwear can reduce the need for constant checks.
5. For work uniforms that require belts and tucked shirts, a white or skin-tone support garment under the shirt can hide the pouch while allowing drainage.
6. Suspenders allow you to buy trousers a size larger to avoid waistband pressure as you age.