The topic at hand is about someone preparing for a colostomy reversal surgery. This person is understandably concerned after hearing some unsettling stories about the recovery process and is seeking advice and personal experiences from others who have been through it. Here are some insights and advice shared by others:

- The colostomy was initially done due to multiple hernias. The upcoming reversal will also involve removing previous hernia repairs and reconstruction, making it a significant operation. The surgeon has estimated a hospital stay of up to a month. Despite the challenges, the person feels the reversal is necessary.

- It's helpful to look through past discussions on forums about "Ostomy Reversal" for more experiences, but keep in mind that negative outcomes might be more frequently shared.

- Some people choose not to have a reversal if the original issue, like a prolapsed anus, might happen again. Keeping the stoma can prevent recurring problems.

- There are positive stories too. One person with a colostomy due to a ruptured sigmoid colon was back to work full-time within a month. Another, who had diverticular micro-perforations, was discharged just three days after surgery and was walking three miles a day within a week.

- After surgery, bowel control might be a bit tricky at first. It's common to feel more urgency as the body adjusts. Wearing protective briefs for a few weeks can help with confidence during this time.

- Preparing for surgery by being in good physical condition can aid recovery. This includes maintaining a healthy diet, staying hydrated, taking vitamins, and walking regularly. Light activity, like walking, should be resumed as soon as the surgeon gives the go-ahead to help regain strength.

- Some dietary changes might be necessary, such as avoiding popcorn and whole-grain foods, drinking plenty of water, and occasionally using Miralax to prevent constipation.

- The psychological aspect is important too. Many people fear the unknown, but some have found the reversal surgery and recovery to be easier than the initial emergency surgery that created the stoma.

- It's important to remember that every case is different. Factors like underlying diseases (such as Crohn’s or chronic inflammation) and the complexity of additional repairs (like hernias) can significantly affect outcomes and recovery times.