Topic Explanation
The initial post is seeking advice and experiences from individuals with a stoma who have been involved in the fetish scene, particularly in clubs.

Advice and Insights
- Leave the stoma alone.
- Be cautious about the potential consequences of getting involved in the fetish scene.
- Enjoy and have fun, but be aware that fantasy can become reality very fast.
- Be very careful about what you wish for in the fetish scene.
- Remember the safe word and be cautious about the potential consequences of getting involved in the fetish scene.
- Don't let a stoma limit yourself, and if it's your thing, enjoy it.

Cautionary Note
- Caution about dealing with any kind of fetish, as it can start small and grow into an addiction.
- Share a personal experience of how involvement in the BDSM community led to self-inflicted sexual self-harm and addiction.
- Highlight the importance of being aware of the potential consequences and the addictive nature of the fetish scene.

Humorous Response
- Appreciation for a humorous poem shared in the discussion.