This topic is about finding love and acceptance after experiencing loneliness, especially when living with an ostomy. The writer shares her personal journey of marrying someone who loves her for who she is, despite her stoma, which she affectionately calls "Sammy." Her husband, Shane, embraces her completely, often forgetting about her ostomy and understanding the basics of its care, even if he's a bit uneasy during pouch changes. She wants to encourage others with ostomies to believe that the right partner will see beyond the appliance and love them wholeheartedly.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Many people affirm that there are accepting and supportive partners out there for those with ostomies. Personal stories from others reinforce the idea that you shouldn't give up on finding love.

2. Maintaining a positive outlook is important. The sentiment "We can’t let one square inch dictate our lives" is encouraged as a key to building fulfilling relationships.

3. Sharing success stories within the community is valuable. These stories inspire hope and resilience among those living with an ostomy.