I live in Port Augusta, South Australia, and at the moment the whole of Australia is suffering from extremely high temperatures. Heat kills more people than road accidents, I am told. I am close to my 81st birthday and have had an ileostomy for over 20 years. I was told at the start to keep out of the sun, especially in heat waves. I have always taken this advice very seriously and make sure to always drink plenty of water. We have had a week of over 40 degrees, and one day was 49 degrees Celsius, which is 129.2 on the Fahrenheit scale. We are fortunate to have air conditioning, as do most homes in South Australia, but even with this, you have to be careful to drink a lot more water than you normally would. Heat affects the mind, I am sure, so I use a foggy head to indicate that I need to possibly drink more or take steps to get cooler somehow. My output is very liquid, but in my case, that is OK. While the Northern Hemisphere shivers, we sweat, so it may seem strange to you up yonder that we down under suffer from this problem. To all you fellow Aussies, I can only say, "Hang in there and drink, drink, drink"—not alcohol, of course, because they tell me that can be very dehydrating.
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Hi Deb,
As you can see, the outpouring of love and support from this website will help you to find the strength to lift yourself up and out of your current emotional situation. I am lucky to have my husband by my side through all of this, so I will not even pretend to know how you feel and what you're going through alone. I do know that I have great friends on this site and in my life that have been by my side, and hopefully you have many by your side as well. You do have a lot of new friends here. Please feel free to talk through anything that is on your mind. We all go through a confidence deficit when we go through an ostomy surgery. Our body has been marred and your mind feels that way sometimes too. It is tough to move on, but you will. You will be stronger once you realize that you are still the beautiful woman you were prior to your surgery. Hopefully, you can reach out to a local support group and find some additional friends in your same situation. It always helps to have a sounding board wherever you find it!
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