why my father gets pain in his lower butt when he is standing so long although he is already have colostomy bag and the anal mass was closed.
herbertbautista112388
Mar 12, 2021 6:29 am
ron in mich
Mar 12, 2021 2:18 pm
Hi Herbert itsprobably scar tissue thats still healing depending on how long since his surgery, i,ve had my sewn up butt ache like a toothache after doing chores around the house especially if shoveling is involved, the main thing is that there isnt any swelling or painful to the touch of it in which case i would talk to a doctor.
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Hi Deb,
As you can see, the outpouring of love and support from this website will help you to find the strength to lift yourself up and out of your current emotional situation. I am lucky to have my husband by my side through all of this, so I will not even pretend to know how you feel and what you're going through alone. I do know that I have great friends on this site and in my life that have been by my side, and hopefully you have many by your side as well. You do have a lot of new friends here. Please feel free to talk through anything that is on your mind. We all go through a confidence deficit when we go through an ostomy surgery. Our body has been marred and your mind feels that way sometimes too. It is tough to move on, but you will. You will be stronger once you realize that you are still the beautiful woman you were prior to your surgery. Hopefully, you can reach out to a local support group and find some additional friends in your same situation. It always helps to have a sounding board wherever you find it!
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