Would you prefer he not wear it....and something much more troublesome might happen?
Good luck and I do hope this is something you both can work through, Shelia
I wore the diaper for a couple of months. Then I was able to use pads. Now I don't use either. I still get minor discharge but not enough to leak out of my cheeks. A quick wipe and it is just a little mucus. Most of the time my wife wasn't even aware I had diapers and she didn't care. It is comforting to know you have someone who will stick with you no matter what happens. It's a new adventure. You have to be able to enjoy life. Good Luck!