Seeking Families with Young Boys with Permanent Colostomies

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markndeb20
Feb 20, 2011 4:14 am
Hi, friends.  I have been enjoying the updated topics and reading through your posts and stories.  Though... I'm still looking for another family (families???) who have a boy born needing a permanent colostomy; or an adult male that was born needing a permanent colostomy... just to share stories that are similar and bounce questions/thoughts back and forth.  

Everyone's stories are so helpful knowing our challenges with bags/changing wafers, etc. And my heart rips when I read when some of our ostomy friends need prayers and special guidance ...  but I really want to meet someone who is also experiencing the challenges we have with our little guy (2 1/2 years old).

Anyone...?

Thanks, friends.

-Ryan's Mom
mooza
Feb 20, 2011 10:53 am

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  Hey i dont know if this is any help i am a long way away from you but australia has a magazine called OSTOMY AUSTRALIA I READ IT AT OUR ASSOC.it comes out quarterly and have read a few about little babys boys having these we stock ones with teddy bears sad but the pouches r cute
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there also is here that they tried to get me into after every operation Y O U young ostomates united sorry like to help more .maybe yes maybe no but i did read the mums story..ALWAYS READ THE BABY ONES SOME REASON..get in touch with these people or email check them out i live all the way here i found this so you never no darlz .goodluck ..mare....
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Posted by: Karen & Stella
Fay,

I am one of those few people who still have a lot of output at night. However, I suffer from short gut syndrome after seven bowel surgeries that led to the loss of much of my small intestine as well as my large intestine from the initial bowel cancer surgery. It does get better over time as your system adjusts, but an ileostomy can be a challenging adjustment. It's important to connect with a good Enterostomal Nurse - ET nurses who can help you problem-solve over time. It's been five years since my initial surgery, and I had a great visit with a new ET nurse in December. He really helped me with the problem of high output at night. I had been getting up every 90-120 minutes to empty my high output bag because of filling. If I slept for three hours without emptying, I would have problems. My ET nurse helped my husband and me make a nighttime collection system using a Rubbermaid juice container with a handle and my old CPAP hose. This is connected to one of my two-piece high output bags and allows for continual drainage. It isn't pretty, but it has been a real lifesaver. I guess the real message I want to share is to stick with it, find a nurse who you can work with, and together you will find solutions to whatever challenges you face. This website is also an important support for me and others. There is nothing you will go through that others haven't already faced and figured out. There is so much wisdom here. Read the materials they've put together for newbies. There are a lot of great suggestions to use. I hope things get better quickly for you.
Karen
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Feb 20, 2011 11:12 am
There are some excellent stories in Ostomy Australia for parents with children with ostomies.  I think you can download issues in PDF form on Google.

But if no-one is forthcoming on here Ryan's mom, have you tried the UOAA site (below link), I know there is a section on there for parents.  Good luck with finding some info, Ryan is beyond cute by the way!


https://www.ostomy.org/forum/index.php
markndeb20
Mar 10, 2011 12:46 pm
Hi, friends.  Thanks for the info on ostomy kids in the UK.  I might have to link there just to even get online connections as I have found literally no one with a young boy in the same situation as Ryan in the United States.  I know there are families (through connections from our doctors)... we ask the doctor to offer our phone number so they can call and chat (or even e-mail!).  No one calls us.  Very private families, I guess.  I tried UOAA (I am a membre) but, again, they couldn't confirm if any family was like ours and I couldn't afford the membership fee just to join, yet, another online support group when there are so many free.

Thanks, again, friends!  I'll keep searching.  -Ryan's mom
lottagelady
Mar 11, 2011 6:12 am
Hi, not sure if this is any use but came across these this morning??

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bad-Tummy-Foundation/239714250807

Hope so?

Love Rach xxx
 

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