It's about putting the x back in sexy.
Looking to hear any fashion design ideas, specifically from
active, passionate, fun, sexy (eau) ostomates. Or any fashion-related
issues that may be holding you back from whatever it is that
you want to do.
Go swimming, don't feel comfy..
If you were shy to sleep with a person for the first time because you didn't want to explain...
Want to wear sexier clothes, but don't..
This is my first blog; I'm not into talking about eau=(ostomies); just about the sexy part.
eau
Jun 10, 2011 5:15 am
Past Member
Jun 10, 2011 4:39 pm
You dirty boy.....LOL Only kidding? I'm not quite sure what you're asking? I feel sexy in flannel.....it's all in the way your partner makes you feel......I wear whatever I want, careful to clean and camouflage my pouch. Just cutting the crotch out of well-fitting panties will do the trick....
A V-neck thin tee, button-down man's shirt, or anything that can easily be pulled off the shoulders as desired for frontal access but still covering the midsection for your comfort and control of the pouch position.
Strapless halter tops (tube style) work beautifully if they're tight and secure. It allows you to go commando (nude) except in the ostomy area; let's face it, that's not typically an area of stimulation, ostomy or no, right?......
I've never had an issue nor complaint; in fact, it doesn't really come to mind at all...there are other places to put your energy, agreed ????
BEG
A V-neck thin tee, button-down man's shirt, or anything that can easily be pulled off the shoulders as desired for frontal access but still covering the midsection for your comfort and control of the pouch position.
Strapless halter tops (tube style) work beautifully if they're tight and secure. It allows you to go commando (nude) except in the ostomy area; let's face it, that's not typically an area of stimulation, ostomy or no, right?......
I've never had an issue nor complaint; in fact, it doesn't really come to mind at all...there are other places to put your energy, agreed ????
BEG
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eau
Jun 10, 2011 7:24 pm
BEG, you have a very healthy attitude about sex and life in general. And by the looks of your lifestyle, husband, and surroundings in your pictures, it becomes even more evident.
We are designing men's and women's wear for ostomates, specifically to help with day-to-day comfort and accentuate the sexy side.
I actually believe passionately in this and will get it to the point where it's not only altered clothing we already have in our dressers, but custom-designed and thoughtfully crafted pieces that enhance our and our partners' lives.
So to answer your question, I can't think of anything better to spend my energy on than developing a specialized clothing line geared toward the more intimate moments in our lives.
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Past Member
Jun 11, 2011 11:54 am
Sounds exciting. Hope you'll share your designs; I'd love to see your line.
Any plans to include day and evening wear? I'd love jeans with a built-in security belt for support. Also, nice shirts that don't rise above or hug your stoma area without looking like a maternity smock!
And for men, a lightweight supportive mesh undershirt to help hold your appliance in place, as most men's jeans are cut low and, like women, you have to wear loose-fitting outerwear. Men have even fewer choices in fashion. I know it's difficult to find shirts that look nice without being tucked in. Golf types and tees aren't always appropriate.
Just a thought for your creative mind. Thanks, Beg