Hi all! I'm Amie. I am a twin, and we both were diagnosed with familial adenomatous polyposis (or FAP/polyposis coli) in October 2013, completely inherited from my late father's side of the family. He sadly passed away in February 2014, at the age of 45, which was due to cancer from this genetic disease. For him, it was too late; he had full-blown bowel cancer in 2010 and was in remission until January 2013. By then, he had both stomach and lung cancer, which spread to his liver and spine, eventually taking his life.
My sister and I had a choice: live with FAP or get cancer. Obviously, we both went for the procedure, a complete ileostomy with a restorative pouch. Yes, it's a lot for us at 23, but seeing my father go through what he went through at such a young age really scared me. It was the only way. Some people I've spoken to, and some of you reading this, might see this as us being scared into unnecessary surgery. But honestly, I feel like we have been given a lifeline.
So how did I cope with this all? Well, I was scared; I almost left the hospital and went home on my admission date. Then I was calm. Then, when they took me in to be knocked out for the surgery, I cried. Then I slept for what seemed like 10 minutes and woke up to the sounds of my mother saying I have an infection, "She's burning up! She's got an infection! I know my child has an infection," to which I mumbled "shut up" over and over again, and the nurses saying it was too soon. I actually did have an infection, and like all mothers, mine was right. I ended up in theatre recovery for 4 days, swollen and in pain. I eventually was reunited with my sister in the ward. Seeing her up and about made me sad; there was something wrong with me. I found out I was in surgery for 6 hours, they found a benign cyst on my ovary around 10 to 15 cm in size, and I was problematic to perform on.
So a week passed, I was told I had to have a scan to see if I had fluid buildup in my stomach; it was pretty obvious as my stomach was bloated and sore. It was confirmed, and as suspected, I had an infection just behind my surgery site, and I also had a rip in my pouch surgery. Apparently, it was caused by my weight (which I think is a load of crap). I came out of surgery, and I had an open wound the size of a grapefruit! Now I had two stoma bags.
Two weeks in the hospital has definitely put me off going back for a reversal. It has now been over two months; I am still recovering, and I am guessing it will be a while before I am back to myself. I just hope the hospital doesn't push me or feed me more cheap talk about health risks!
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I checked my email and saw new postings. That's when I usually visit the site. I've recently met a few others who have developed UC and have made contact with them. I've directed them to this site. I also use the site to look up concerns they or I have. This site has been unusually helpful to me. I have seen questions and concerns of others posted. After I scroll down and see similar comments that I would make, I don't comment. As for social media interest, I have a Facebook account (due to work). As of this date, I have one Facebook Friend (and don't even know how that happened). I find the content here more relevant to my life. Then again, I'm old school. If I want to see how a friend is doing I just make a call.
Stay Safe and Sane all. Back to the hockey game,
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