There is a good chance that my colostomy can be reversed. A bit of history: colostomy surgery as a result of diverticulosis in April 2021. Conversation with the surgeon prior to surgery was basically a graphic of what the surgery would entail and also a reconnection if possible.
As I had a colostomy post-surgery, obviously the team was unable to reconnect. Since then, there has never been any discussion of a reversal.
I have developed a large hernia surrounding my stoma. It is about the size of a large grapefruit. In September 2021, the surgeon submitted my name to the local hernia clinic for a consult. COVID didn't allow that to happen until recently. Following my CT scan, I met with a different surgeon regarding my decision to have the major hernia surgery or not. That evening, I received a phone call from the surgeon who asked if I had ever contemplated having reversal surgery. I said no as it was never presented as an option. She was of the opinion that it could be. One more test scheduled.
To get to the point of this message, I would like to know what the recovery from a reversal has been for others. I have spoken to one woman who shared that she wasn't back to "normal" for about a year. She always had to be mindful of where a bathroom was located nearby, experienced accidents, loose stools, and the texture of the stools never returned to what they were prior to surgery. Hardly a positive reply.
I am 76 years old, live alone, and am fairly active attending fitness classes Monday to Friday. These classes also provide my social contact which I would be reluctant to give up due to a lengthy recovery.
I am seeking advice/experience from those who have had a reversal; how long in respite before being able to cope alone and any other helpful information.
Thank you in advance to those who will share their experience.