Hi everyone, long time lurker, this is my first post. I've had my ileostomy for 30 years and up until a couple of years ago, despite stoma retraction, I've had an uneventful time. I've had to change my bag to Confidence Be as my previous supply was no longer being manufactured. I've had a few episodes of leaks but on the whole, I have been happy with this new system. I have, however, had to start using various products like barrier wipes, residue remover, powder, etc., which I didn't use before because of Eakin rings now swelling (they never did before) and helping the bags adhere more as they are a lot heavier than my previous bag. However, over the past few weeks, it's causing me significant problems with sudden leakage and extremely sore skin which stings (this has never been an issue with previous leaks). I'm wondering if it's the residue spray I might have developed an allergy to, as I use that more than anything else. Has anyone else experienced this?
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Hi Deb,
As you can see, the outpouring of love and support from this website will help you to find the strength to lift yourself up and out of your current emotional situation. I am lucky to have my husband by my side through all of this, so I will not even pretend to know how you feel and what you're going through alone. I do know that I have great friends on this site and in my life that have been by my side, and hopefully you have many by your side as well. You do have a lot of new friends here. Please feel free to talk through anything that is on your mind. We all go through a confidence deficit when we go through an ostomy surgery. Our body has been marred and your mind feels that way sometimes too. It is tough to move on, but you will. You will be stronger once you realize that you are still the beautiful woman you were prior to your surgery. Hopefully, you can reach out to a local support group and find some additional friends in your same situation. It always helps to have a sounding board wherever you find it!
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